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Pick up
chopsticks, ohashi, with the right hand.
Rest chopsticks in the left hand while placing them in the proper position
in the right hand.
Place
the chopsticks on the rest, hashi-oki in
between bites. They may
also be placed on the side of a dish or saucer if a hashi-oki is
not provided. It is not proper
for the chopsticks to touch the tray or table after you have started eating.
When
finished, lay them across the plate, or rice bowl. Some people put them back in the paper they came in and bend a
corner.
In a
formal situation it is proper to lay the chopsticks down when being
served.
In more
formal, expensive restaurants you may receive lacquer chopsticks that
are placed on the hashi-oki. These are slick and
more difficult to use.
When
taking food from a communal plate, do not use the end of the
chopsticks that you put in your mouth.
Reverse the chopsticks and use the unused end to take food.
Always use serving chopsticks if they are available.
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The
more informal the meal, the more likely these rigid rules will not be
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Most
restaurants serve wooden chopsticks that come in paper wrappers and
need to be separated before using. Cheap wooden chopsticks often
splinter when pulled apart and people are often seen scraping off the
splinters. Be cautious here--scraping the chopsticks might
offend your host, indicating that you are being entertained in a cheap restaurant.
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Part
Two
- Taboos and Interesting Expressions
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